5 Affordable Valentine’s Day Ideas to Skip the Splurge
Originally published in 2014. Updated for 2026 to help you love well and spend wisely.
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Somewhere between honoring a Christian saint and the explosion of red roses, candy hearts, and pricey dinners, Valentine’s Day has become more about consumption than connection.
According to the National Retail Federation, Americans are expected to spend over $29 billion this Valentine’s Day 2026. Shockingly, this $10 billion more than when we first published this article on affordable Valentine’s Day ideas in 2014. That breaks down to just over $199 per person—much of it going toward gifts that will be quickly consumed, forgotten, or wilt within days.
But here’s the truth: honoring love doesn’t require breaking the bank. Whether you’re single, dating, or married, there’s a more meaningful (and budget-friendly) way to celebrate. Here are five affordable Valentine’s Day ideas that keep your spending well below the national average without sacrificing thoughtfulness or joy.
Team Up and Save
Valentine’s Day is marketed as a time to splurge on an expensive dinner for two, but who says you can’t share the love with some friends? Instead of dropping $100 at a fancy (and crowded) restaurant, have a double- or triple-date at someone’s house. Some candles and decorations from the dollar store can set the mood for just a few bucks. Share the cooking duties or order some inexpensive take-out to split. If you’re single, grab some friends and have a game night or movie night to celebrate on the cheap.
Just Do Dessert
If the urge to join the restaurant-loving masses is just too strong, go straight for the dessert. By eating a light dinner at home and saving your cash for a sweet treat, you can keep most of your money while still enjoying the ambiance of your favorite dining establishment. Even pricy restaurants tend to keep their dessert menus in the $5-$10 range, and who doesn’t love dessert?
Get Creative for Free (Or Close to It)
Your talents, not your money, may be your ticket to an affordable Valentine’s Day. Roses and chocolates are great, but they don’t exactly say, “I’ve put a lot of thought into this.” Do you have a way with words? Try writing a poem or just a heartfelt note. If music’s your thing, make a playlist of meaningful or funny songs that remind you of your significant other, and include explanations with your gift. Photo albums, video messages and non-store-bought cards are other great ways to show your love for less.
Take Advantage of Money-Saving Sites
Discount websites can really come to the rescue when Feb. 14th rolls around. Check out Groupon, LivingSocial and Half Off Depot, to name a few. Restaurant.com is also a great way to save money on some nice eateries. Just make sure you check the reviews before you choose a restaurant. You don’t want to pick a dud and land in the doghouse.
Our Top Affordable Valentine’s Day Tip: Celebrate Love, Daily
Just because society dictates the recognition of all things Valentine’s Day doesn’t mean you have to join the costly festivities. Some couples happily skip the crowded restaurant scene and enjoy a romantic night in. Take the $200 you might spend on the holiday and put it towards something more useful, such as debt or savings. Nothing says romance like financial freedom.
Final Thoughts
Valentine’s Day is a beautiful opportunity to reflect on love, but that love is best expressed through intentionality—not indulgence. Whether you’re sharing the day with a spouse, friends, or yourself, let your choices reflect stewardship, creativity, and the heart of what love really is: selfless, meaningful, and lasting.
Love well, spend wisely, and honor God with every decision—including how you celebrate.
