Debt settlement can be a useful tool for getting out of financial hardship, but not all debt relief options are created equal. Many companies push settlement programs even when they’re not appropriate, leaving people worse off than when they started. Others charge hefty fees that may feel disproportionate to the value received—especially when you realize that if you know how to settle debt, you can often do it yourself without paying costly settlement fees.

At FaithWorks Financial, we’re not a debt settlement company—we’re a Christian debt relief agency that helps people explore the right solution for their unique situation. Whether that’s a debt consolidation loan, a debt management plan, or yes, a carefully considered settlement, we guide each person with honesty, wisdom, and faith-based financial principles. And today we’re sharing something most debt settlement companies don’t want you to know—how to settle your debt yourself.

While we no longer handle negotiations directly, our roots run deep in debt settlement. Our company has counseled thousands of people since 2012, and in that time I’ve negotiated over $8 million in debt settlements on behalf of debt relief clients. We know what works, and we know how to do it with integrity.

This article will teach you how to settle debt the right way—with honesty, wisdom, and faith-based financial principles.

If you’re considering debt settlement and want to negotiate a settlement with your creditors, here’s how to navigate the debt settlement process ethically and effectively—whether on your own or with professional help.

This guide is not legal or tax advice. Please consult an attorney and/or licensed professional before making financial decisions.



How to Settle Debt Yourself

You don’t necessarily need a third party to settle your debts—many creditors are open to working directly with you. If you’re comfortable handling the process on your own, here’s a step-by-step approach to do it effectively:


1. Know What You Owe

Before you begin negotiating, take time to gather detailed information about each of your debts. This includes:

  • The total balance owed
  • The current interest rate
  • Any late fees or penalties applied
  • How long the account has been delinquent

Having a full picture of your financial situation will help you negotiate from a place of knowledge and confidence.


2. Determine What You Can Offer

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Before picking up the phone, take a hard look at your budget. What can you realistically afford to offer—either as a lump sum or in monthly payments?

  • Review your monthly income and essential expenses (housing, utilities, food, transportation)
  • Calculate how much you can set aside for debt repayment without jeopardizing basic needs
  • Identify if you can pull together a lump-sum payment (from savings, tax refunds, or help from family)

Knowing your financial limits will help you avoid overpromising and ensure that any deal you make is one you can follow through on. It’s better to offer less and stick to it than to agree to terms you can’t sustain.


3. Call Your Creditor and Explain Your Situation

Reach out to your debt collector or consult a credit counselor and be honest—but strategic—about your financial hardship. Clearly explain that you want to repay your debt but need some form of relief due to your current circumstances.

Stay calm and patient during the conversation. Be prepared to answer questions about income and expenses as they will want to determine your capacity to repay. It may take multiple calls to get a favorable offer, so don’t assume the first conversation is the end. Settlements often take multiple conversations to put into motion.

Ask about hardship programs that may be available to you. Many creditors have internal options that aren’t advertised. If no relief is available from programs such as this, let them know you’d like to discuss the idea of a settlement.


4. Offer a Settlement Amount

If your budget allows you to offer a lump-sum payment, this is your best approach. Creditors often accept reduced amounts when a one-time payment is available, especially if the account has been delinquent for some time. Start by offering 30–40% of your balance if paying in a lump sum—though some creditors may accept more or less depending on your hardship and account status.

If a lump-sum payment isn’t possible, propose a term settlement, which breaks the agreed amount into monthly payments over a short but defined period, typically 12 months or less. Keep in mind, term settlements typically result in a higher total percentage paid—creditors who might accept 40% in a lump sum may require 50–80% of the balance when repaid over time—but it can still provide meaningful relief and avoid further collections.


5. Stick to the Agreement

Once you’ve reached a settlement with your creditor, it’s critical to follow through with the terms.

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Get any settlement agreement in writing before sending payment. Verbal agreements are not enough. The written settlement agreement should clearly state:

  • Your name, account number and balance owed
  • The settlement amount agreed upon
  • The payment schedule
  • The due dates for settlement payments
  • Clear payment instructions

Make every payment on time—even a single missed payment could void the agreement and put you back at square one.

Maintain detailed records of all conversations, agreements, and payments made. This documentation will be useful if any issues arise in the future.

Finally, confirm that the settled amount is reported as “settled” or “paid in full” on your credit report. This ensures your credit reflects the resolution accurately.


How to Settle Specific Types of Debt

Not all debts, including credit card debt, are created equal—and neither are the strategies for settling them. Whether you’re dealing with medical bills, credit card balances, or accounts in collections, knowing how to negotiate effectively can help you settle debts for less and move toward financial freedom.

Here’s how to settle different types of debt:


How to Settle Medical Debt

Medical bills can feel overwhelming, but the good news is that healthcare providers are often more flexible and accommodating than traditional lenders. With the right approach, you can significantly reduce what you owe or negotiate manageable terms.

Check for Billing Errors

  • Start by carefully reviewing your medical bills. It’s estimated that up to 80% of medical bills contain errors, ranging from duplicate charges to incorrect coding. Take the time to go through each item and dispute any mistakes you find with the billing department or your insurance provider.

Ask About Financial Assistance Programs

  • Many hospitals and clinics offer income-based financial assistance or charity care programs for patients experiencing hardship. These programs can significantly reduce your balance or eliminate it entirely, depending on your income and circumstances. Don’t hesitate to ask your provider what options are available.

Negotiate a Lower Balance

  • If you’re in a position to make a lump-sum payment, you may be able to settle the bill for 30–50% of the total balance. Healthcare providers often prefer receiving a reduced payment in full rather than waiting indefinitely for the full amount.

Request an Interest-Free Payment Plan

  • If a lump-sum isn’t feasible, ask for a monthly payment plan—many providers offer interest-free arrangements as long as you make consistent payments. In many cases, these providers do not report medical debt to credit bureaus if you stay current on your plan.

How to Settle Credit Card Debt

Credit card companies thrive on collecting interest and fees, but if you’re experiencing financial hardship and have fallen behind, they may be open to negotiating a settlement. Reaching out proactively can make a significant difference in the outcome.

Call your creditor as soon as you can make a fair offer.

  • While it’s true that creditors may accept less on accounts that are long past-due, that doesn’t mean you want to go no contact for years. The earlier you initiate contact, explain your hardship, and show that you’re making an effort, the more willing they may be to work with you. Waiting until you’re deeply delinquent to contact them can limit your options and reduce their willingness to negotiate.

Offer a lump-sum settlement if possible.

  • Start by proposing to pay 30–40% of your total balance. This is a fair starting point for negotiations, though some creditors may accept more or less depending on your hardship and account status. A lump sum offer strengthens your settlement offer. Creditors often prefer a guaranteed, immediate payment—even if it’s less than the full amount—over the risk of getting nothing.

If a lump-sum payment isn’t an option, consider a term settlement.

  • This involves negotiating a settlement that is paid over a series of payments, usually 12 or less. You’re still

How to Settle Debt in Collections

Once an account is sent to collections, the process remains quite similar—but it’s important to remember that you gain legal rights as a consumer.

Know your rights under the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act (FDCPA).

  • Debt collectors are strictly prohibited from harassing, threatening, or lying to you. They must follow fair practices in all communication, whether by phone, email, or mail. Understanding these protections can empower you to respond confidently and appropriately.
  • The FDCPA applies to third-party collectors, not original creditors. This is why you gain legal rights. Original creditors are the financial institutions that issued the loan or line of credit, whereas debt collectors and debt buyers collect on the debt but were not involved in extending the credit.

Request debt validation before making any payment.

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  • You have the right to ask the collection agency to provide written proof that the debt is legitimate and that they have the authority to collect it. This step ensures you don’t pay a debt that’s inaccurate, expired, or already settled.

Negotiate carefully once the debt is validated.

  • Collection agencies frequently accept a lump-sum payment of 40–60% of the total balance. When negotiating, be clear about what you can afford and insist on favorable reporting terms.

Always get a written agreement before making a payment.

  • The agreement should confirm that the debt will be reported as “settled” and that all collection efforts will cease once the payment is made. This documentation protects you from future disputes or re-collection attempts.

When Professional Help Is Worth It

While settling debt on your own is possible—and often effective—it’s not always the easiest or most strategic path, especially when you’re juggling multiple accounts, limited resources, or creditor pressure. In these situations, working with a reputable debt settlement company can offer real advantages, both financially and emotionally.

Complex Debt Needs a Coordinated Plan

Imagine trying to negotiate with four or five creditors at once—each with different policies, timelines, and collection tactics. When you’re dealing with tens of thousands in unsecured debt spread across multiple accounts and different debt types, coordinating individual settlements becomes overwhelming fast.

Professional debt settlement companies take a big-picture approach. They evaluate all your accounts, develop a strategic plan, minimize risks, and prioritize negotiations to maximize savings and reduce the chance of legal action. Their experience allows them to sequence settlements wisely and direct relationships with creditors and collection agencies streamline payments. This allows them to take advantage of time-sensitive offers you might not be able to accept when settling debt on your own.

Greater Negotiation Leverage

Professionals often negotiate in bulk, handling tens, hundreds, or even thousands of accounts at once. This gives them stronger bargaining power than an individual debtor—especially if the creditor knows the settlement agent is representing multiple clients. They also understand creditor behaviors and policies, knowing when to push, when to wait, and when to close a deal.

Debt settlement companies can often secure settlements for a lower amount than you might be able to on your own. But, you may be able to secure a better deal on your own. Honest companies will let you know when there are difficult creditors in your lis. Even after fees (typically 24%-28% of the enrolled debt in today’s debt settlement landscape), many clients end up with more favorable outcomes than they could achieve on their own.

Avoiding Costly Mistakes

Debt settlement involves more than just making a phone call. Every agreement should be documented, every payment tracked, and every credit report verified for accuracy. One misstep—like making a payment before terms are confirmed in writing—can lead to misunderstandings or even re-collection of settled debts.

Settlement professionals ensure each agreement is airtight and correctly reported. They also help you understand potential tax implications and avoid pitfalls that could cost you thousands.

A Break From the Stress

Here’s the truth—debt collection is stressful. The phone calls, the paperwork, the legal threats—it’s a heavy burden to carry on your own.

When you work with a trusted settlement company:

  • You still approve every offer, but someone else does the hard negotiating.
  • You get professional guidance on paperwork, reporting, and timelines.
  • You can finally stop worrying about saying the wrong thing or missing a deadline.

You stay in control, but you’re no longer alone in the fight.

Is It the Right Fit for You?

Hiring professional help might be the right move if:

  • You have multiple unsecured debts (credit cards, medical bills, personal loans).
  • You’re behind on payments and being contacted by collectors.
  • You’re facing possible legal action from creditors.
  • You feel overwhelmed trying to manage settlements yourself.
  • You want a plan that’s efficient, strategic, and legally sound.

At FaithWorks Financial, we help you assess whether a professional settlement company makes sense—or whether a debt management plan, budgeting strategy, or DIY negotiation would serve you better. We never pressure, and we only refer to providers we’ve vetted for ethics and transparency.


How to Spot Debt Settlement Scams

Not every debt relief company has your best interests at heart. While the national debt relief industry is highly regulated, it’s wise to keep your personal guard up—this is your financial future at hand.

Here are some red flags to watch for:

  • They charge upfront fees. Under FTC rules, it’s illegal for debt settlement companies to charge upfront fees before settling a debt. Legitimate companies generally only charge a fee after settling a debt.
  • They promise “guaranteed” results. Creditors are not required to settle—so no company can guarantee it.
  • They tell you to stop paying your creditors even when you can afford to pay. If you’re not facing a legitimate financial hardship, they’re selling you a bad decision.

For more tips on spotting scams, visit the Federal Trade Commission’s guide.


The FaithWorks Approach: Ethical, Transparent, and Faith-Based

At FaithWorks Financial, we believe that getting out of debt should be done with integrity, not deception or false promises. The core purpose of our debt counseling agency is to help you determine the right approach for you, whether it be through our debt relief programs or not.

We also know that debt is more than just numbers—it’s stress, uncertainty, and sometimes even shame.

But you don’t have to walk this road alone. Here’s what makes our approach different:

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  • We only refer you to trusted, vetted debt relief providers.
  • We don’t charge you anything—our service is free, and we’re only compensated by the providers we trust.
  • We help you compare ALL options, including debt settlement, debt management, bankruptcy and budgeting strategies.
  • We prioritize what’s best for you, not what makes us money.

If you’re struggling with debt, let’s talk. We’ll help you find a way forward—with wisdom, integrity, and faith.

Schedule your free consultation today!

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1. What percentage should you offer to settle a debt?

Most creditors will consider lump-sum settlement offers between 30% and 60% of the total balance, especially when there is a significant hardship or if the account is seriously delinquent. For lump-sum offers, starting at 25–35% is reasonable, as it is smart to start a little lower than where you ultimately plan to land. If you’re settling over time, expect to pay 50–80%. The more hardship evidence you provide, the better the chance of a lower offer being accepted.

2. Should I request debt validation before offering to settle?

Yes, you should request debt validation in writing before negotiating, especially for debts in collections or that you are unfamiliar with. This ensures the debt is legitimate, not expired, and that the collector is legally authorized to collect.

3. Will settling debt hurt my credit score?

Yes and no. Settling a debt is considered negative, but it can often boost your score. A settled account may appear as “settled for less than owed” on your credit report, and “settled” is considered negative as compared to “paid in full.” However, because you’re likely already behind on payments, paying the outstanding debt has a positive impact on your outstanding debt, closes the collection, and improves debt to credit limit ratio. Because of this a settlement will often result in an increase to your credit scores.

4. Are there tax consequences to debt settlement?

Yes, there can be. When an account is settled for a savings of $600 or more, the savings may be reported to the IRS as taxable income. However, if you were insolvent at the time, you may qualify for an exemption. Consult a tax advisor to learn if you qualify for an exemption.

5. How do I write a debt settlement agreement?

While you don’t usually write the agreement yourself, you should insist the creditor or collection agency provides one in writing before making a payment. It must include your name, account number, current balance, settlement terms, payment dates and instructions, and confirmation that the debt will be marked “settled” or “paid in full.”

6. Is it biblical to settle debt instead of paying in full?

The Bible teaches us to “let no debt remain outstanding” (Romans 13:8 NIV), but it also emphasizes mercy, honesty, and stewardship. If full repayment isn’t possible, a fair, transparent settlement reached through a mutual agreement with your creditors can still reflect integrity and wisdom in managing finances.
“Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law.”
Romans 13:8 NIV

About Josh

Josh Richner is the founder of FaithWorks Financial and regular contributor to the FaithWorks Blog. Josh is a Christian, a husband and a father with an unremitting passion for personal and professional growth.

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